RIP Grandma..

Wednesday, May 21, 2014 yesterday was very grieved for me and my big family.  Grandma suddenly got heart attack, coma and eventually pass away at 23.00 pm.

Grandma was a very instrumental in my life.  When I was child she taken care of me tenderly, I spend much time with her.  I feel so sad when I remember all the things about grandma, many beautiful memories with her, she was very kind and patient.  If allowed to turn back the time, I wanted to make my grandma happy, take care of her, hug her everyday and make her smile proudly.

At the early morning I was surprised to find a text from dad who reported that grandma was ill and coma in the hospital. Without thinking I Immediately packed up to go home, catch the train most mornings to get to the hospital immediately to see grandma condition.  I feel very upset at the time, was not unstoppable tears again, eager to be next to grandma...

Thanks God finally I arrived at hospital, Straight body lying limp at the sight my grandma in ICU with a set of breathing apparatus.  She is close her eyes, her seizures.  Visible blood from her mouth...my tears are increasingly becoming, dear God please heal and give the best for my grandma...

I tried to communicate with grandma although it is futile, because grandma was in a coma. I didn't stop to whispering my grandma to say Allah, hoping she could hear me..

After all this time i finally relized that grandma would not hear me, I hugged her body which is lying limp and cold.  Adzan magrib was reverberating, I went to take wudlu and take a pray  in the mosque.  At about 20.00 pm I was accompanied by my little sister decided to go home to get some rest, because I have not been resting since coming from Jakarta. At 23.00 pm my sister mobile phone was ringing, there is a call from hospital which is tell that grandma is gone, innalillahi wa inna ilaihi rojiun..

Thursday morning 0:30 pm grandma's body was driven by ambulance to arrive home.  Any family sobs accompanied the arrival of the body of grandma, we were very sad, grandma has been gone forever..

The body of grandma  is washes and immediately with Islamic shari'a compliant, I do not  want to miss one bit of each moment to give my last honor to grandma..bathing, praying etc with my big family.

Thanks God I still had time to meet my grandma, beside her when she went...goodby my beloved grandma, hopefully you get the best place beside Allah SWT, our prays  with you...Aamiin

Phenomenon of The Amazing Spiderman 2

Last Saturday finally I get the movie ticket of The Amazing Spider-man 2, after last Thursday failed  to watch this phenomenal movie.  It is like everyone  have hypnotized by this movie. 

Sony's Pictures and Marvels Studio was broadcast their new sequel of Spider-man, which is premier in Indonesia on 30 April 2014. Films The amazing Spider-Man 2 is about a superhero played by Andrew Garfield, which is in this latest sequel of Spider-man will face a new enemy called Electro played by Jamie Foxx.

Peter Parker busy life after high school graduation can not come fast enough, between dealing with bad guys wearing Spider-Man and spend time with people who loved, Gwen Stacy.  Peter has not forgotten that promise made to Gwen's father to protect her, but it's a promise that can not be maintained.  Things will change when peter meets a new villain "Electro" which appears, and an old friend harry Osborn, the peter reveals new clues about his past.

 Finally my curiosity was relieved last Saturday, the movie  of The amazing Spider-man 2 is indeed very cool, it's no wonder if everyone from young children to older people very excited to watch this movie. 

 

But in the excitement of this movie there is not good news from it's effect, especially for young children.  Because young children always idolized superheroes, want to be able to fly and being great as they idolize superheroes such as Spider-man, Batman, Superman etc.  They do not understand that the real superheroes they are watching is not real, it's just a movie scene.

Recently in Indonesia, precisely in "Laguna Apartment" Jakarta there is an incident happen, the tragic incident in which a little boy named Valentino, 5 years old died jumping from the 19th floor of the Apartment.  The child jump from apartment after his request to watch Spider-man movie was rejected by his  mother.  This incident really sad for the family and Indonesian society. The Amazing Spider-man 2 movie which was supposed to be an entertaining spectacle, but instead lead to disaster.

From this accident we can learn that young children need to get the assistance of parents about what they watch, in addition to moral values parents also should be instilled in children that what  they see is not necessarily be replicated or imitated.  Spider-man superheroes scenes that can jump and hanging from tall buildings is very great indeed.  However, for children of course they have limited understanding.  

There is some lesson we can take from this incident that not every  great and wonderful things have an good effect.

Quote of the day..

Keep your thoughts positive

Because your thoughts become

YOUR WORDS

Keep your words positive

Because your words become

YOUR BEHAVIOR

Keep your behavior positive

Because your behavior become

YOUR HABITS

Keep your habits positive

Because your habits become

YOUR VALUES

Keep your values positive

Because your values become

YOUR DESTINY

(....Mahatma Gandhi....)