Positive Happiness

What do you think about  happiness? Each person have an answers and different definitions..

For majority people happiness are when they get anything they want, manifest what they aspired, has a good job, have a lots of money, have a big house, cool cars etc. Some people say that happy is when they feel comfort , peaceful, filled with love and affection.  Whatever, happiness is the goal, and everyone  wants to live happily in their lives.

I've my own definition of happiness. For me, happy is when we go through ups and downs wisely, can accept the fate of God and useful for other people. Taking care of family and parent, cooking, worship with family is also a reflection of happy in my daily life, Alhamdulillah..

Getting married is a big decision in our lives.  I decided  to get married because I fell in love with someone. Fall in love with the communication between me and a mate like no end.  Married is great thing, because we choose someone who will spend rest of our life with. Someone who live next to us everyday. I am getting married with my mate because some reasons, there are:

* Because he have similar hobbies and outlook life.

* Because he live a life with passion and support in each other, event we've work in different area.

* Because he have the knowledge and skills to create a comfortable and fulfilling life.

* Because  we can open and candid with each other.

* Because we can be honest about all of it, whether it's good  thing or else it disconcerting.

* Because I can be my self with all the advantages and disadvantages, and he still loves me and vise versa.

* Because I never stop miss him when he goes out of town.

* Because we do not stop communication on matters outline, but all the interesting topics that are hot.

* Because he has empathy and is able to teach empathy.

* Because he considers me equal, listen to the opinion.

* Because he accept and respect my family and parents.

* Because he never complaining anything I cook for him, event it was good or bad.

* Because we can talk and joke about anything. I never felt be annoyed with my joke whatever it is.

* And the most important thing is because I can not live without him, he is my Imam dunya akhirah, insyaallah..

Maybe this could be part of the checklist before we decided to make our beloved now as a partner for life.  I am sure there are many more points that you have to complete happiness in life.  Life for love for happiness, Positive happiness...